Four years into my marriage I was buried in guilt and shame due to a porn addiction that no one (including my husband) knew about. The secrecy was killing me inside. Every single day I wished I could stop, but I didn’t know how. Day after day I promised myself that “today will be the…
Imagine what it would be like to have a tremendous struggle, but you feel you must keep it a secret. The few times this was mentioned from the pulpit in your church, it was in reference to “those people” outside of the church, but never within. This is often only addressed within the context of…
As someone who was once deeply trapped in the web of pornography, I can now look back and recognize several lies I believed without question during that time. Since sharing my story with many people over the years, I have found that these lies are not unique to my own story at all. Many of…
A few years ago, I was ministering to a young woman who struggled with pornography along with same-sex attractions. I’m going to call her “Angie”. Angie was so relieved to have finally found a Christian woman who knows and understands her struggles. There is one big difference in our stories, though… She was once part of…
